Written by Michelle Robinson

I wonder if you know someone who sincerely believes that they are an optimist, and yet whenever you talk with them, they can only see what’s wrong with everything?

I have a good friend like that. Because we live several hours from each other, we often chat on the phone. I start the conversation with a bright, breezy tone, but very soon all I’m hearing is what’s wrong with the weather, her relationships, her weight, life and the world. It’s been this way for as long as I can remember (and yes, she is a loyal friend to me. I love her.)

There is a saying that, ‘Seeing is believing’, but I think that’s incorrect. I’ve found that believing, is seeing.

The thoughts and beliefs we hold are the building blocks for our perception of the world and everyone in it.

For example, when we believe that life is a gift and Australia is a beautiful place to live, we won’t whinge every time the temperature reaches 30 degrees, or we have to circle the carpark. We have the patience to accept lapses in comfort and small inconveniences without feeling annoyed or upset.

When we believe that every person has the right to be their authentic self (provided this does not cause harm) then we don’t jump on a moral high-horse when they do something we don’t agree with. We are tolerant and aware that our lives are our responsibility, and we don’t need to judge the lives of others.

I do believe that my life is a gift. I think I’m incredibly lucky to be the age I am and live where I live, with the family and friends I have. While I don’t like a hot day any more than anyone else, I can still see the beauty of the blue sky, the gorgeous colours in nature and the benefit of doing the activities that bring me joy. Being a bit hot doesn’t ruin my day.

Each of us is a spirit wearing the uniform of a human being. We are here to experience life, and believe it or not, we chose to be here. When we understand that, we see a world that is brimming with opportunities to create, love and even experience grief. One who has never known the magnificence of love, may not feel the knife of grief, but to avoid love robs us of the greatest joy available in this dimension.

Volunteering at the Fraser Coast Hospice as a Pastoral Care Worker, I speak to many family members whose loved ones have passed into Spirit. Not one of these beautiful grieving souls has ever expressed that they regretted the love that now fuels their grief.

If you have a friend who cannot see the beauty in life, I can only offer that you are patient and gentle with them. Stay focussed on your positive outlook. Shining your Light may one day help them discover their own and that will make their world a much happier place.

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